A Couple’s Dream of owning an Inn?
Walking through our woods in early morning, the air fresh, Chocolat my Weimaraner, sprinting after a scent of maybe a bobcat, deer, porcupine, or chipmunk, pointing at birds, I revel in my good fortune of living in Vermont; on Newfane Hill and toiling in my favorite town, Brattleboro.
Those walks clear my head. But often my thoughts drift easily to Innkeepers I have met, become friends with, and have been privileged to see the changes that occurred to their relationship.
Many of them were at one point prospective Innkeepers, seeking a career that allowed for more autonomy, more freedom to be creative, and more in control of the product they could deliver, and with pride embrace their guests satisfaction and pleasure at having found them and their wonderful Inn.
It is satisfying to see a couple buy an inn and make it their own: there is their enthusiasm, plans to restructure rooms, remodel whole buildings sometimes, new furniture, new king-sized beds, new bathrooms, and maybe fresh flowers setting the final touches of elegance of meticulous décor.
I love this phase of creativity. If the money doesn’t run out, if they bought a viable business, this is the most exciting stage. Guests and owners smile with equal satisfaction and contentment.
So what are the issues, or maybe there are none! What I have observed is that life beyond the creative stage is repetitive; and like creating an Inn, and every so often recreating that Inn (at least every 7 years), our personal life seeks to evolve and we need to find time as individuals, and together as a couple, to reinvent ourselves.
And therein lies the difficulty. We are busy with the daily tasks; those must do lists, and the complications of the roles we assume and perform routinely, that we become unaware of a sterility, a monotonous response, the lack of love and affection, stimulated by our own lack of interest in self awareness, personal growth.
A couple that I respect deeply are the Innkeepers at the Captain Lord Mansion, in Kennebunkport, Maine. After 30 years in Innkeeping they still have an impressive occupancy (even this summer). You will never visit their Inn without being aware of the changes and upgrades that have occurred since your last visit; but it is the Innkeepers that have evolved, have grown as individuals, have changed themselves. I have witnessed that over the years as they raised their family at the Inn, they reached a critical stage, where they personally had to take stock of their needs as individuals, as well as their need to respect each other as different and individual, to come together again as a couple.
It is this unique milieu as Innkeepers, that breed of entrepreneurs that allows people again and again to reinvent and rejuvenate not only their Inn but even more importantly the owners. Bev and Rick are not the only stars in this industry but they are the ones that have the longest track record in the Innkeeping industry to my knowledge. Have a great summer!
Heide
